Phrases that should and should not be said to a friend who is going through a breakup

Each person handles a breakup in a different way. Shakira (45) has become one of the characters of the moment. His split with Gerard Pique (35) has put him in the center of attention. These were very difficult months for the Colombian and he poured all his anger, frustration and pain into work and songs which he has since released. “I congratulate you” and “Monotonía” have already become two heartbreaking anthems, but the collaboration he launched with Argentinian producer Bizarrap will go down in history.

Shakira brutally charged at the former Barça footballer and his current girlfriend Clara Chía (23) and the lyrics to ‘Session 53’, as this great song is called, are most incendiary: “A wolf like me is not for beginners. A wolf like me is not for guys like you. I was big for you and that’s why you are with someone like you”, “I understood that it is not my fault if they criticize you, I only make music, sorry that it splashes you. You left me as a neighbor of the mother-in-law, with the press at the door and debt to the treasury”, “You thought you were hurting me and you made me harder. Women don’t cry anymore, women charge”… But how to behave if a friend recovering from a breakup? Finding the right sentence to relieve this pain is sometimes impossible, but our duty is to comfort and advise this heartbroken person.

Should we invent reality and say what it wants to hear? Or is it better to be honest? Here we offer you a series of phrases that you should and should not say, your best allies to avoid a tense situation. And also, we have the list with motivating phrases to get out of the rut if you are going through a bad time.

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Phrases not to say to a friend after a breakup

• “Stop talking to him.”
• “I never liked that for you.”
• “You were too much for him.”
• “We saw it coming. You had no future.”
• “If you looked good!”.
• “Things happen for a reason”.

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• “I’m sure you’ll come back.”
• “You didn’t even hit with glue.”
• “Don’t scratch. It’s a dick.”
• “No one died of love.”
• “Well, he wasn’t that handsome.”
• “There’s a thousand guys, today we’re going out and I’m going to introduce you to my buddy.”

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Phrases you should say to a friend after a breakup

• “You are worth more than him.”
• “You deserve to be happy”.
• “It’s the best thing that could have happened to you.”
• “Everything happens for a reason”.
• “Time puts everyone in place”.

• “Don’t dwell on the past.”

• “It was the best”.

• “Time heals wounds.”

• “It’s time to have time for yourself.”

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Famous phrases to dedicate to your friend and help her overcome a breakup

• “You have to learn to leave the table when love is no longer served” – Nina Simone.
• “Do you know what’s best about broken hearts? That they can only really be broken once. The rest are scratches” – Carlos Ruiz Zafón.
• Those who are in a hurry to leave are those who never intended to stay.
• “Trust in time, which usually gives sweet solutions to many bitter difficulties” – Miguel de Cervantes.
• “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved” – Alfre Lord Tennyson.

• Life constantly whispered to me that it would make me happy, but above all it wanted to make me strong.

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Phrases of songs to dedicate to your friend and help her overcome a breakup

• “Big Girls Cry When Their Hearts Break” – “Big Girls Cry”, Sia.
• “I have my whole life to live. I have all my love to give” – ​​”I will survive”, Cake.
• “She was tired of being good, now she’s the one using them” – ‘Tusa’, Karol G.
• “A wolf in the closet wants out. Let her eat the neighborhood before you go to bed” – ‘Loba’, Shakira.
• “You thought you were indispensable but without your love I’m not going to die” – ‘Irreplaceable’, Beyoncé.
• “Pretend like this never happened and we’re nothing” – “Someone I knew”, Gotye.
• “You learned to love no one. And also how I don’t want them to love me” – ‘La bachata’, Manuel Turizo.
• “There’s a reason I didn’t expect. But while you’re gone, I’ve found a love that loves me much more” – ’11 Reasons’, Aitana.
• “We don’t need romance, we just want to dance” – “Man, I feel like a woman,” Shania Twain.
• “I’m not going to cry and say I don’t deserve this. Because I probably deserve it but I don’t want to, that’s why I’m leaving” – ‘I’m leaving’, Julieta Venegas.